If she can not deal with having the ashes, given the circumstances don't think I would want anything to do with them right now. Maybe she should just give them to his Mother. That way she doesn't carry any more guilt than she already had.(before she found the letters, don't know about now)
At least this way she can still feel like she will be taking the high road. No plot to mull over and purchase either.

I just hope she doesn't make a rash decision she will regret later.

Just a thought.
I feel for you, your family, and your friend.

JAK

Last edited by JoJo's circus; 05/13/10 05:56 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez