Part of me wants to say f*** him, run and just forget the whole damn thing. I don't want a penny if it means he disappears from my life, I'll make it work somehow. Another part of me doesn't want to let him off the hook. I'm torn which way to go.
Yep.. that's the emotional part talking. I listened to that once or twice (ok.. maybe more than that). Then I realized.. that is not good for me long term... all it did was cut off my nose to spite my face.
So I learned (am still learning) to usually wait a day or 12 before responding to the trigger email/phone call that stirred up those feelings, until I could respond in a way that was a good choice for me.
I wish you the strength to do the same. (((Bunny)))
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
