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Originally Posted By: dburt
I have already thought of lack of progesterone as she has been on the pill for years to regulate her irregular cycles. And I have already tried to suggest that maybe she has an imbalance of hormones. But, she does not agree.
I stand by what I said, however I repeat. You can not fix this!
You have suggested and she has denied, does not surprise me at all.
Puppy has a different idea and reason I would love to hear it.


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Originally Posted By: OldPilot

Puppy has a different idea and reason I would love to hear it.


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lol, yeah puppy spill it...So, I just wait OP, until it corrects itself naturally (if it is the hormones)?

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Yes, maybe the therapist will help her but you must back off. She knows what you want and pressuring her will not help.

IMHO Burt you have come a long way since last year. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with this person what defines a little more time?


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Should I back off in a db'ing type of way, or just in the bedroom, or should I continue to try to fill her LL's well.

By the way guys, all this is very much appreciated...

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You should most definitley do #2 and #3,
#1 I will leave up to you but DB'ing is something we should all do for the rest of our lives.

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What is your opinion on that Pup?

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I'm lost. I never diagnosed ANYTHING, other than to say maybe she's a little entitled and a "princess." OP flat-out SAYS she's either pre-menopausal or menopausal, and I ask "on what do you base this?" and suddenly you both think I have some other diagnosis?

Like I said before, I'm probably the wrong guy to ask on this one, due to my own longstanding SSM issues. I'm bowing out.

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Puppy,

I base it on the 15 books that I have read on this subject in the past year, including SSM & SSW by MWD. I am also on a menopause website. I said I am not a doctor so I could be wrong.

The most powerful sex organ is the one between your ears. So yes there might be another medical reason. Burt's W has already been told that she has irregular cycles(and is on some sort of pill). 40 years old. She is of the right age.(between 35-55).

He has gotten past the hard part of this and he is not getting D.

That for starters, is what I am basing what I have said.


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Pup, I understand that you do not have a diagnosis, but what do you think of OP's suggestive actions I should take. Just looking for your opinion, no diagnosis. I know you are not a doctor and I don't even know if you stayed at a holiday Inn express last night.

Burt

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