Confused and looking for advice

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Hmom,

I always communicated with him and truly believed that we were on the same page.

This is a powerful word. This is your perspective on the interaction.
My W and I fit this to a tee, however she was the one who decided to leave.

When I recieved my bomb I thought and asked her if there was someone else. She said no, and I her mom and friend told me the same thing. I do remeber her telling me that she was receiving a lot of attention when she went out but always came home to me.
IMO altough there mey not be signs of OW there may be thoughts about OW, especially if he is unhappy and is receiving attention from someone.

My W says she didn't want to cheat on me while M. Her moving out and saying it's over justified her thoughts about the M being over, thus making her OK to se OM.
I am just giving you things to think about.

Puppy is so very good so please listen to him.

I have been here 8 months and seen and learned a lot too.

You said you both worh together so he has a job. Is he Depressed? Going through MLC?