Thank you so much. I have been hoping for a woman's point of view. I am still workign on my patience. I have done better, but I still am the type of person that wants to get it done and out of the way so that we can deal with the next thing. I am that way with everything in my life and it is difficult to reprogram and try to let it play out. I will stop over to your thread and read and leave some more comment later.