If you want it to be different this time than do it. We all get in these ruts and use the excuses of life to be that way because it is easier. We really need to push ourselves to do the different thing, get out of the box, out of the comfort zone.

I am right there with you so don't think I am pointing fingers. Even today at work I came to this realization. I already knew that I spend more awake time with my boss then anyone else since this is a two person office. I however still carry over communication styles that I had with my ex. I took care of it, so why share. My boss needs to know what is going on just like my spouse would. I have to change.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory