There is no ow, this has been confirmed over and over. He is not a good liar and a very good friend of ours who is a marriage counsellor has asked him and he would not lie to him for sure, even to save face. He is not like that and I have to believe him when he says this is not what it is about.
You're being naive.
If there is no other woman, he'll say there is no other woman. If there IS another woman, he'll say there is no other woman.
ALL CHEATERS LIE -- PERIOD.
Now, I'm not saying he is or he isn't. All I'm saying, is:
1. He's displaying a lot of classic warning flags, and it would explain a LOT; and
2. You should verify it, and you DON'T verify it by ASKING THEM, because they will only lie to you.
People lie to their own counselors all the time. Please, BE CAREFUL.
