HotRomeo, I'm not anti-dating, but as I've written to you many times before, I do think that you need to branch out socially. Develop friendships with single/divorced folks, figure out how to have fun with people, make feeling good socially a goal. Dating is not a short-cut to GAL/detachment. You have to do the work on that and get out of your comfort zone. I've had many of the thoughts that you're having so I can relate.

Each week, do something social that stretches your comfort zone.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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