Yeah - this morning, she still was still in the same state. And she talked about how I was so happy. She said - something really big happened this week, and you're happy.
It's pissing her off I guess. I don't know. I said, it's a relief to have gotten that step over with.
I guess it doesn't matter, I'm not responsible for her feelings. And you know - I had that twinge of needing to be concerned, to join her in her - funk, whatever it is, to experience it together... which makes me wonder as I'm typing it - HOW MUCH that tendendcy informed my state of mind during our marriage.
Hm. I wonder if I'm finally effectively DBing.
In other news, got an email from yet another high-school aquaintence who appears to be a WAW. He assessment is she's OK, he's not, he tells her there's still a chance, and she's annoyed and thinks "no way".
I must admit, this is interesting. These WAWs are all so - set, resolved - and see their H's as so pathetic in some way or other. And yeah, part of that is their insistence to save their M.
