I'm trying to figure out her point of view on this, which is difficult with little to no communication with her. It's not that I want to read her mind, or that I even care about her in the exact situation.
S14 had an academic awards ceremony next Wednesday. It seems to be that it would be better for the kids to see us working together more. Part of me thinks she's is trying to "punish" me for discovering her relationship with the OM, and for telling her I could no longer share a house with her under those circumstances.
It's a head-scratcher; previously she expected us to do all the kids stuff together. Don't misunderstand, it's easier for me without her around right now, but I just wonder how it effects the kids. D17 did tell me, in an indirect way, that the tension is making her uncomfortable. So maybe, it's ok like this for now and I should just wait until school starts back in the fall to address this stuff.
The situation is still so strange to me. Six months ago, I sat in the school functions looking at divorced parents wondering how they did it, and thinking thank god that's not gonna be me.
Anyone got thoughts on this?
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