Hello all. I see it’s been about three weeks since my last post.
A lot has happened in that period of time. We had the talk. It went as I expected it would. She was honest with me. Something she has never been in the past. I will come back when I have more time to fill in the holes.
S8 has started baseball, and the schedule is brutal. Between baseball, work, and all of life’s other distractions I haven’t had much time to jump on the forum. I think I needed a break also. Give me some time to absorb and process things.
As I said I will explain how I got to this point later, but as of last night my wife has decided she would like to do whatever it takes to make our marriage work.
We have not sat down to talk about what that will entail. I told her I needed some time to think. I didn’t start jumping around and kissing her feet. She asked if I wanted to still make things work. I told her I didn’t/don’t want to think about it until she made up her mind on exactly what she wanted to do.
She knows it will take time, won’t be easy, and in the end we may decide to end it.
What do I do next?
I’m not letting her move back in right away. I don’t know the process of moving forward from this point. All of my effort was put into getting to this point, I never thought it would get this far.
I plan to read the chapters in some of the books I have pertaining to this subject. I would also like to know what the community thinks the right approach should be.
The advice, wisdom, and help you have all contributed to me has done more than any other resource I tried.
I thank you. My family thanks you. You truly have changed my life for the better.
