Doormat---God I hate that phrase…

A doormat is something people wipe their feet on…

I can’t tell you if you are a doormat or not…

Only you know how you feel.

Will living apart make you feel like you are being used, taken advantage of, a “doormat”?

Or will it make you feel like you are part of a healthy happy relationship, where you support each other in your individual endeavors?

SC,

In my current R, I am open to trying things that in the past I may not have been so comfortable with. I may not still be so comfortable with them, but I don’t say no right away, UNLESS it is something that I feel compromises me, as a human being…

If I try something and don’t like it, then I don’t do it again…

That comes with knowing yourself…

Knowing what you are worth to yourself, regardless of any other person, their actions, or their feelings…

Do you know what you are worth?



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox