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It's been a while since I updated. Nothing much going on. I had an incident last weekend with her. We were in a meeting with my S therapist (he goes to group play therapy every tuesday). It was just a standard monthly meeting with her.

My W is going on and on about the 'problems' my S is having. So I interrupt and tell the T my W has a habit of embellishing and exaggerating things. I said it was an issue pointed out in the psych report.

The T asked if we agreed with what was in the report. My W said she didn't agree with the body of the report but she agreed with the conclusion - the part where she gets primary custodial custody and the visitation schedule. I laughed and said, yeah, all except that Wed overnight he recommended and you took out in the lawyer from your letter to mine. She said, yeah, I didn't agree with that.

I went on and told the T the report also said I would be a better co-parent because of my W's thinking she can do no wrong and I can do no right. I told the T that was also in the report. I also said the report said my W blames everyone else and doesn't take responsibility for herself and her issues.

My W then said, well the psychologist was going on what I (meaning me) told him. I looked at her in astonishment. I told the T this is another thing my W does - she says I 'charm' all the therapists and fool them about myself. I said, Do you think therapists are that stupid that they can't see through people's BS? Do you really think I can fool a PhD in Psychology whose done hundreds of these Forensic Analysis'?

Then my W said, "Well he told me you were a pathological liar and you were lying to him." She also said he told her I was cycling (Bi Polar) when I was with him. I called her a liar. I asked her why those weren't in the report. She said she didn't know. It was a complete fabrication on her part.

It's very frustrating. But I'm fine. I have learned to quickly bounce back when she pushes my buttons - I know it's her issues and has nothing to do with me.