eh- I am too nice for that. Seriously...I did pack all of his stuff and he drove around with it in his car. He was over at her apartment on our anniversary. I left him a note that said what a nice way to spend our anniversary, please dont come home. The next day was my birthday, he came home and told me about the affair, said I love you and I want to be with you and only you...we are a family and I want to start a new marriage with you but you have to trust me. SHE must have got to him because I told him to break it off, I got 2 texts and a email from her...From that point he went right back to the basement..then I hear how he is just there for the kids..bs! PURE BS! BS she is feeding him. At this point I cant kick him out...Did I happen to mention she is single white female..read my stich..she copies everything that I do..seriously.