Cat04,

I know, but I'm wondering if I'm just being stubborn, if I'm keeping this M from reconciling because I am being as steadfast in my opinions as he is in his.

Someone should give, I'd like it to be him (lol!!), but maybe it should be me? Or does that make me = doormat (sure, get your own place, live away from us, we will support anything you do).

Am I stubborn by not yielding?
Am I doormat if I do?!!