So I asked if she would like to join me in councilling Tuesday and she said no, she didn't like him. (which I remember her saying that she thought the hour flew by and wished we had more time with him when we were going last year) Said he didn't remember things from week to week. She said she has an appointment with a woman next week that was recommended by her friend that "everyone goes to".
I have never heard of her and am scared where that will lead. But I cannot control that.
Asked her again for some playtime last night and again she said "no thanks" I asked why not and she said, "because I do not feel like it." I asked, "how about just giving me a little help?" She said, "no thanks", I said why not, she said, "because I do not feel like it."
Anniversary tomorrow, tickets to a show, dinner and a night in a fancy hotel. Going to do my best when I get rejected again.
Puppy, when should I upset the cart, and how should I do it, I would do anything but I do not want to upset the children.
Burt
When you decide that these things are dealbreakers for you -- Boundaries of Personal Integrity. Maybe they are mere annoyances to you, that the two of you can work thru -- only you can decide which.
Personally, I think she's an entitled Princess, and I find her responses to you above callous, hurtful and downright disrespectful. "Honey, I don't feel like it tonite; how about a raincheck for tomorrow?" would be a reasonable response.
You may want to do some posting in the SSM forum on your situation, Burt -- I'm probably the wrong one to ask.
