2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

Wow so much to comment on. Before I forget, the low weight gain is a blessing- I know stress isn't good- but you don't need one more thing (weight loss) to deal with after the birth with all this mess!

The psychologist- I am skeptical! Does she know how people act when they are having an affair? (seriously many psychs are just not specialists in infidelity)And you have been with WH for quite awhile, enduring other stressful events I am sure! Don't you think you would have seen a hint of his "personality disorder?" Does the psych believe in MLCs because your H is probably going through one! Get a second opinion, Piano!

Crying- yep- my mom told me she thought WH crying was all about himself. I didn't understand and she said she thinks crying means "poor me!I feel so bad!" because he wasn't crying and ending the A. Actions=remorse! (like your psychologist said)

The appointment-do you mean your baby is breech? Feet first?

Coffee- I kind of think that talking to the psych beforehand probably put a negative spin on things. Of course I would have totally been put over the edge hearing him complain about HIMSELF and his money issues??? Excuse me? You are going through a hell of a lot worse BECAUSE OF HIM! So no 2x4s here for speaking the truth! You even apologized later- not necessary but very kind of you :-)

When he said "I am trying my best" and you said "I believe you"
was that the truth? Do you think he is trying his best? I am just curious!