Can you do those things under these circumstances?
These are all questions you have to answer for yourself…
If this is something you feel that you can honestly handle, and won’t make yourself crazy wondering where he is, what he is doing, who he is with, and he really seems to be making an effort…
Then do it…
IF you can’t do it that way, or you don’t want to do it that way…
Then don’t do it.
You are still trying to decide what you want, based on what he is willing to give you or not. You will end up sacrificing yourself in ways that you won’t like down the road if you continue this way…
I know many people live apart for financial reasons (ie jobs, etc..) however, when they do, they have a plan in place of when they will see each other, how much they will communicate when they are not together, and often how long it will last that way until they can be together on a full time basis…They are both on board with the plan even if they are not totally happy with the situation…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
