Should I just ignore her physical advances? I almost feel like if my issues before were not being affectionate enough that I need to try and be more emotionally available. It's tough to do that and drop the rope at the same time. I can assume that her emotional state is so all over the map right now that I can't really trust them.
Any ideas.
I would. Especially if we're talking about sex. Partly because its something some women use as an instrument of control. I might even say something like, "Sorry, I'm not comfortable being intimate with someone committed to ending our marriage. It seems inappropriate."