Ok, I am kind of ranting here about those thinking of leaving because their spouses are workaholics. I am not talking about the ones who are jag-offs, liars, already cheating, etc.
I am talking about the ones who work hard, travel, get promoted, and so on.
In this economy? SHUT THE F UP!! Seriously, people never seem to know when to leave well enough alone.
If your H or W has a demanding career, chances are that you already knew this when you married, or encouraged it if they became successful later. So I think it's unfair to b!tch about it now instead of being supportive.
What eventually happens is that the spouse will retreat more into work, and be ripe for an A with someone else at work who "gets it."