SR, it is a rough go! Single friends is probably a good option. I know my church involvement helped me to meet people, take part in activities and to grow spiritually. Now, I know that option isn't for everyone. I'm just suggesting you be careful right now, take it slowly and allow yourself grieving time because there's a lot to grieve here. You put in a long time trying to save something of value and now it's gone. That hurts like hell! Btw, you didn't waste two years because by DBing you grew as a person and you also showed faithfulness and honour, that's never a waste in my books! Later, SR. Btw, I did the "just coffee" route and it eventually became one more blow I had to handle at a very difficult time. So, again, be careful!
