She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

tbart the problem is you're pushing and she's moving back. I understand the frustrations you are having. But your relentless thinking about how things should be further along is what is pushing her away from you.

This desire to accelerate things is creating a needy projection from you and she feels that. I imagine it's also making her feel smothered.

You have to level out with that. You have to let go of her and your expectations.