W sent me a note last night, telling me that I tell her nothing about my thoughts and feelings. She chastises me for being derogatory about the OM, and for thinking he is always on her mind.
I may not know how to handle this sort of thing (I am getting a D after all), but I can empathize: the OM is dating a married woman (should you praise him? Please! Of course he is doing something terrible), and he IS on her mind if she is defending him.
I don't know how you respond to that, but I understand that is BS. I hate these things that feel like tests myself.
I can tell you from experience, arguing won't prevent a divorce if that is where her head is. What you could do to turn things around, however, is above my pay grade.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 05/13/1001:07 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
