Does holding all of these "positions" work for you?
Ask yourself this: if you had this same problem on your last thread, and then again this time, and you're having it with just about everyone, and you're also having it in your marital relationships . . .
. . . is it possible that maybe it's YOU?
You don't have to "subordinate," Bummed. Hell, you don't really HAVE to do ANYTHING. But it would help you to drop the attitude, and stop trying to dictate to everyone else in your life how they are allowed to react with you.
Just a thought. Personally, I'm going to go help out some other folks who are actually WANTING some help and advice, and who appreciate it.
