Thanks Braveheart. Oddly enough I am about 90% detached. Last night she got all dressed up to go out on a date and it didn't bother me much at all. I see her for who she is. Someone I do not want to be with. I have been at this MLC for two and a half years (one year of seperation) and I am in a heck of alot better place than I was before.
I do not want to leave the house. When I was seperated I felt so out of control from a legal stand point that it created alot of anxiety. I would rather deal with her going out with OM #3 than me living somewhere else and having her bring him back to my house that I still own.
I'm going to start dating and GALing my tail off. It seems to work.
