3kg-- is that 6 pounds, Piano? Oh my God! I thought I was weighing in small with a 17 pound weight gain, but. . . wow. It is such a stressful time, though, I totally understand it.
What the Psych said is very interesting. I have heard from others something similar-- personality disorder. That's very scary stuff. My mom actually has one (borderline), but she is 100000000x worse than WH. Yeah, my mom is totally different from WH. So I don't know what I think about that.
It is SO my WH to want to talk about himself to me. (Or at least, the 'crazy' self.) If/when we are in contact, he'll do the same thing your WAH just did. But to say something not-great about his brother, the BIL? That's just low. Of course he could be slightly jealous. Or just trying to find support from you. Who knows?
What do they mean when they say 'trying my best'?
Sorry coffee was not that great. How were you for the rest of the night knowing it was his birthday?