"H, I need a man who takes care of himself so he can be a good father and husband".
Commit to memory. Use when you can.
My heart breaks for the children...
Commit to memory and keep mouth closed. LOL
He knows this. Deep down he probably feels confused and guilty about this as well. The mind of a MLC'er is a complete mess. Wanna see him get defensive and lash out at you because of all of his guilt? Then tell him this, tell him something is wrong with him and see how he reacts.