I'm not sure he wants to talk to me about anything, including the R. From what I've read here, when it's time to drop off/pickup our children I should just be cordial, but not overly involved, right? Like I was having a brief interaction with someone at the grocery store. I wouldn't ask the man who grabbed the last can of baked beans wth he thought he was doing, right? Same thing here, friendly, not pushy, not nosy, not overly involved.
Correct. Friendly without pressure or pursuit.
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I could feel one of the jagged pieces of my heart break a little further.
Please be careful here. It is exteremly easy to take the stance of " your not going to do this to MY children!!!" You do need to protect the kids, however it becomes awfully easy for you to use this as justification for YOU to stay angry with him. Yes it's tough and NO the children don't deserve any of this. Do your best to there for them. They really need you right now. Don't use them to stay angry at your H.
