What to do when their friends suggest leaving?

[Bummedout]

Yea, it's kinda pathetic really. God forbid someone not completely subordinate themselves to the wnnabe DB "gurus" . . . LOL.

Tip #1: When someone is not looking for advice, and says so . . . and then says so again, and then says so again, and then says so again, and then says so again . . . might be best to not do that.

Tip #2: If someone is asking for something specific . . . .like for others to relate their experiences with trying to mitigate damage caused by friends of their spouse, if you haven't ever tried to mitigate the damage . . . might be best to move on to another thread.

Tip #3: When someone gets testy because people are ignoring the thread topic to give unwanted, and as it turns out rather poor, advice relative to the topic, they aren't being "controlling" really . . .it's called "not submitting to other sanctimonious, controlling people"

Tip #4: If you find yourself insulting and ridiculing somebody for not subordinating themselves completely to you as you invade their thread to give unwanted advice and character judgment . . .you're an actual control freak.

Tip #5: Calling people "control freaks" in an effort to gain control over them . . . is kinda funny.

Tip #6: Next time someone asks for others experiences . . . relate your experiences if you have them. Even invite them to elaborate when and if they're ready, rather than beating them over the head and pretty much demanding information they might not be ready to share yet, and then ridiculing them for getting a little ticked at the gang-bang tactics some of the "helpers" use around here.

Okay . . . now feel free to continue being alienated!