Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

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I was going to add how lucky I felt that he is able to express these things to me now and with such clarity, like he didnt pre-bomb!! Yes K, I agree, it washes away the past. I was crying down the phone to him last night (he's been away for days).. it had bought up so many memories of when he left: him back home and me here, not knowing where he was, or with whom, him carrying on seeing friends 'business as usual' and me, so devastated I could hardly function. He said when I join him later this week, it will put an end to those bad memories and 'close the circle'. Bless him !!

He is VERY excited about the wedding, shopping for a wedding shirt past 3 days. I dont know what I am going to do about hair, makeup shoes etc, eek!! Met the seamstress this week, she is confident about my dress. It is so far based on 4 or 5 dresses I like, so I dont know what it will end up like!!! Eek again.

He is sorting the honeymoon, either Iceland, Italy or.. Greek islands (lush)! (no PayPal, sorry!)

Lees - I'm glad, but so sorry you find yourself here. My bf was ADAMANT it was "over for good" etc.