I have been thinking about the same thing in dealing with my XW. Before I felt the need to have to answer or prove her wrong, than I went thru a short(thankfully) phase of sink to her level and answer a nasty comment with one of my one thing.
Now---I just ignore it entirely. I think you would drive your XW up a wall if you just answered her 2 questions and ended the e-mail. What do you care about what she thinks anymore? Also her comment about re-assuring or re-affirming her decision every time leads me to believe that she still has not reflected entirely on the marriage.
One day she will, so continue to practice going dark both for her and your sake. Less is more with these crazy aliens I think!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
