I know you don't want to hear this, but a court ordered no contact order in your situation restores some of my faith in the judicial system.

I am not trying to be mean either. Stop obsessing about what she is doing or not doing. You need to focus on yourself and your child. Period.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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