Great post redhead. I see examples in RL of people who havent come here for help, but whose H have had A's, or there has been separations and whilst the guys seem genuinely relieved to be back in the M, they dont want to "talk it through" or go over what happened. They would rather forgot and move on.
The woman are left to muddle through and have little choice but to accept it, if they want to keep the man/M. Usually they do, because they love him, but I wonder about the longetivity of a few of our friends M where things have truly been "swept under the carpet". Better to do the work now, I agree.
