Babydoll, I think the signs are very very positive.You are giving him the space he needs and you are finding yourself again.Everything happens for a reason and perhaps God in the strange way he works, wanted to give you both a little shake to prepare you for the arrival of you little one.Clearly what you are doing, is working so keep doing it! and keep your expectations at zero.
Your H feelings will continue to soar but when the baby arrives,whilst it is the most wonderful,it is also the most tiring and really hard work..so be conscious of this and make an even bigger effort to work on yourselves.More importantly ensure you have time together as a couple, keep seprate intersts so you are interesting to each other.A mistake I made.
Great..soooooo happy for you.
ps the girls are fine.I think he is totally embarassed and hurt that he could and has hurt us in the way he has.Interesting he works all day and out running every night..perhaps avoidance..is he starting to look at her and resenting where he is..wishful thinking on my part...love and hugs babydoll(())


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith