Yeah I jumped over. And I've got to agree. XW's OM was someone she knew from high school and they connected on FB. And not to get into details, and obviously I'm going to say this, but this guy is a loser. XW told me recently, "I thought I was in love." And I thought about that for a couple of days, and finally asked her, "how little do you respect yourself?"
But as I mentioned, I've found a lot of support through this process by reconnecting with people on FB, yeah, some from high school. In the end - it facilites human relationships - the good and the bad elements. There's nothing new there - but it really does grease the rails.
BobbiJo - yes. Good comment. I've been thinking about this lately actually.