Thanks, Romeo. That helped.
Hopefully I'm getting to the point that a post like the one I just made will be made without the still-residual
Originally Posted By: Gardener
Felt good, but still I find myself wondering if I'm detached or just "taking" her e-spew and thus reverting to conflict-avoidance-at-all-costs.
But I'm getting there.
I'm getting there.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac