I was told by db coach that if W says "I' leaving" don't engage in R talk, don't reason with her or try to convince her it is bad because all she would want to do is prove me wrong. She'll make it a point to show me she can make it with out me...
I was told if I simply say "I want you to be happy" it will make her think that I have her best interest in mind and she would think "he is not being selfish and thinking about himself, he want me to bed happy" and I ultimately she wants to be with a person that makes her happy
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
