Wow, BD- I don't want to jinx anything but it really sounds like your H is trying to connect with you without "talking" about it.
He is truly committed to your baby at this point! He gave up tickets to his favorite sporting event?

Graduation- I predict the DB coaches would say to go. You are still married to your H so if anyone asks who you are seeing, you say his name. If they ask how you know him, you say he is my husband. I doubt anyone will ask! And don't you think he will introduce you like "This is BD! Soon to be best mom ever of our son!" lol- my point is that he might be able to introduce you without saying "wife." It would be revealing though if he did introduce you as wife!

(fyi at this point, I haven't had to explain my H to anyone thank God! BUt I think I would tell the mommas at the swim class that we are separated and leave it at that!)


Great job just going with the flow!!!



Last edited by newmama; 05/13/10 03:35 AM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004