Well girls, my H initially lost weight (pre-bomb/already in the affair) that I suspect was to look better, younger....and now continues to loose weight that he can not afford to loose. He is soooo thin that he looks fragile and his face is kind of hollow, and he looks really tired and older.

CW you are handling seeing the two of them together very well. I know that I would be very upset if that happened to me.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO