as soon as i mentioned this to h last week he down loaded spy locator software i saw on his history so he is trying to hide stuff.
No, he’s protecting his privacy. I’d download spy-locater too if I knew some crazy lady was snooping on me.
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I give you alot of credit for being so strong.
You keep doing this—saying we are strong or wise—as though it is some special attribute that you cannot have. Instead of focusing on what we have that you don’t, focus on how to get some of it.
You head from the OW’s husband that your husband and she are seeing each other again. So you have a confirmation that your husband is cheating. That’s all you need to know—stop reinforcing it; you already know. My husband lived with the OW every time he left home. I didn’t sit here and wonder where he was or what he was doing. I already knew; he was with her! Because he was with her two nights in a row—or 105—did not make it any worse since it was all part of a single action.
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weren't any of you concerned that you would get screwed financially while waiting to see if m would survive. that is one of my biggest fears about waiting. i feel time is not on my side because of this. you don’t know how crazy he is with debt
Stop! Are you not paying attention at all! Yes, most of the posters here do know because they are dealing with MLC spend-crazies. And yes I was concerned about my finances; I was afraid of losing my house, my job… The difference in your situation is YOU.
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the problem is in my state unless you are d you really have no protection from h debt.
Yeah, in your state of mind. Talk to your lawyer about financially protecting yourself. It can be done; but I don’t know how, ask a professional.
And by the way, you are not allowed to put your email on this site—it is cause for immediate banning. Edit that now!
