I have a feeling that the little boy was not missed, it is happening in exactly the right time. I can feel for your H not getting over his parent's D. I never got over mine, and it's a large part of why I am committing to stand.
I also have a feeling, but you may have been told this already, that you and your H will be connecting very strongly now. Is there something you two are supposed to do together or always wanted to do together that would be unusual?
Something made me go back to that thread I posted this question on after I had closed it out and ask this question, so I think that you should be happy knowing that you are teaching and reaching even those who are lurking. I think, I may be wrong, but I think someone needed to know this information. Thanks for being so open about it.
