I got a legal seperation, this protected me from his accumulating debts (200,000)...I canceled all joint accounts...
That is how YOU PROTECT yourself...NOT SNOOPING ON HIS COMPUTER...
You need to call him and tell him that you don't want to be able to access his email anymore and have him change all the info you need to get the password...if you have no control (like you claim with him and his spending)then give him the control to stop you from ruining your life, his life, and your sons...
You are on a one woman road to destruction...and I chime with Mr. Bond...print out your posting here and show it your doctor...you have lost control....
I was also the one who had to be sane...my children kept their grades up...even honor roll! I would not allow anything to hurt them and if that would have been me I would have found someone I trusted to watch them for me (when I felt a breakdown coming on I would do that so that I could have MY time)
You are losing it...and I think it is terrible that you are snooping so much...that is not protecting you...you can't keep him from spending money...especially not by checking his email history...personally, if I knew your H I would rat you out because I don't think you have the sense to see what your doing and to change you addiction-controling your H and worrying yourself over NOTHING...
(holding my head in utter disbelief that someone can be so so so stubborn, blind, hard-headed, and totally unreasonable!)
