gatsby, you are so strong!!! You sound so relaxed like NM said. How do you do it???

Good thing you didnt go for the fixer upper home... the only thing that needs fixing up is your H. (and mine too)Hahaha...

Sounds to me like he is definitely going through a MLC... trying to figure his life out... Condo or family home... Car or motorcyle... single life or fatherhood...