W still wants separation, need to DB more

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She is getting over a terrible cold that caused her asthma to act up. She is doing better now, there is still some congestion thou.

The shift I am on now worked out great for us. I leave for work at 7pm and she goes to bed round 8-9pm she gets up at 2am and leaves for work at 3am and starts at 4am. I get out of work at 6am. My W gets out work at 1230pm and home around 1pm. I wake up at noonish. We have about 6 hours to spend together. It has worked out for us so far. I cannot do a shift change until july.

I don't think a shift change will benefit our R but it will help me as being on nights my mind has too much time to wonder and think about our sitch.

Today has been a real downerm I thought we were making progress but I suppose not. I I am going to give her space, start to detach more...