Protect yourself financially. I beleive you have been told this. You need to make sure his debt does not affect you. Do this now. YOu know how he spends. Don't wait around letting him make you bankdrupt. You need to protect yourself and your futre. BTW you do not wait to see if your m will survive. You live your life like he is never coming back. You can leave the door open but do not wait.
