Rys,

Ok I am sorry that you are finding these things on your computer.

While it has been established by others that this is marketing tactics and nothing more…

And while I have no idea what my web history or anyone else’s web history says because I don’t look at them…

I am gonna go with you…

Ok, so your H, has looked at these things, he is doing this stuff…

I am sorry.

I am sorry that you have such a difficult thing to deal with. It really sucks. I am not trying to be rude or condescending.

I really do feel for your situation.

So please, tell me, tell all of us, what are you going to do about it?

What do you want to happen?

Are you ready to give up and file?

Is that going to benefit you and your S right now? Or is there something that you can do differently?


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox