reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

I just cannot win. W just called, all upset about our conversation today. Said I was asking invasive questions, trying to control her life. She does not want to have those conversations, only wants to have them in a controlled venue, such as in front of a MC. She came into my office and started the conversation, and then let it freely run, but I am the bad guy trying to control her life? WTF??