Thanks, PG. I don't know. Thought it was positive, but the vibe that she is resolute on the D is very depressing. I sense her IC is helping her become strong and independant, and that she thinks that going back into our relationship would be backsliding somehow. I don't think she understands that we can have a new relationship based on different ground rules and understanding. I sense she views me as part of her past, not part of her future, and I don't know how to counter that.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012