Thanks, PG. I don't know. Thought it was positive, but the vibe that she is resolute on the D is very depressing. I sense her IC is helping her become strong and independant, and that she thinks that going back into our relationship would be backsliding somehow. I don't think she understands that we can have a new relationship based on different ground rules and understanding. I sense she views me as part of her past, not part of her future, and I don't know how to counter that.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012