Zen,

From what I've read and I'm no expert there isn't necessarily and age or sex for MLC. It can happen. I was warned though by either my IC or someone on the boards from refraining from attaching MLC as a label (or give your spouse that as an excuse). That said oftentimes one of the activities of an MLCer is a EA that may lead to a PA. They do it to feel good about themselves again as they are aging and having a hard time coming to terms with their new being.

Again, I'm not an expert. I believe my husband has classic MLC symptoms although through much C it appears more narcissistic tendancies. But really it is all jacked up if you ask me. He had the EA which turned into a PA (unprotected with a women with HSV2). No conscience whatsover.

Anwyay, I hope that helps.

GDH


Let the sideshow begin....

Me 44
H 46
S 13
D 11
Married: 17
Dated: 7

Bomb 7/1//08 ILUBINILWY
2nd Bomb 4/3/09 I'm Leaving You
3rd Bomb 11/2009 - The 3 YR Affair is discovered