Goodgirl, you sound as if you want to at least try to win back your H.
There was a lot of stuff my H did in his anger. His parents called me a "moneygrubber".lol. That was SO unfair (gifts REALLY mean nothing to me.lol. Dead last on those tests).
Yes, I *could* have dwelled on that. But I tried to see the "bigger picture".
My H is a basically decent person. My H and I had a pretty good marriage. My H has good qualities that I respect. His parents see him as their "little boy". I have a son, I could totally see myself doing that too. They only knew one side of the story.
When he said he wanted those earings/ring back, I think it was a test--if they mean nothing, you'll give them back. I wouldn't do it. (but I am NOT a gift person--would someone who knows "that language" agree?)
I an *not* sure how to help you here, because I barely know what sorts of interactions you guys have. Post how/when you see each other and give lots of details. When will you be seeing or talking or texting or ?? him next?
Work on being confident, positive, do some sort of 180 to make him curious about you...something. A cute new outfit? A sexy cute summer haircut?
And somehow, you have to speak his gift LL. I am not sure how to do it but really, really think about this one.
